24 Mar Misunderstandings between swinger couples

Swinger couples often experience irritations when dating other swingers, and in this article, we try to explain how to avoid any misunderstandings.

When a swinger couple tries to communicate with another couple and rely on a messaging platform, their writing can be misinterpreted. It is especially touchy when these couples have never met. Sometimes a person has a sense of humor that he tries to convey in his messages. For example, if you don’t know that this person is sarcastic, you can misinterpret them as arrogant. On the other hand, a shy person can appear disinterested. Perhaps a couple is hectic, so there may be a long delay between messages. If English is the person’s second language, swinger couples could perceive their writing as lacking education. In any case, the swinger couples may decide not to meet for reasons that are not valid.

We make sure all photos and profiles of our members are real and up to date.

The other problem that reigns supreme is the disdain for the truth by many couples. The main complaint seems to be the outdated photos that many couples choose to post. No matter how attractive and fit you were ten years ago, that no longer reflects what you look like today. This is the main reason why at Swingtagon International, we hand-select every profile and verify the authenticity of the photos. As a result, our members can rest assured that the photos and information of other swingers are real & up to date.

Some other swinger profile issues include lying about age and not being truthful about what you’re looking for. If you have no experience with exchanging or are not completely comfortable with exchanging, be honest. At some point, all your lies will become apparent to the couples you meet. This makes it uncomfortable for everyone. Don’t shave 10 years off your age, and then be surprised if the couple who agree isn’t interested. On the other hand, don’t expect another couple to “take it easy” if you have written that you are completely trading and have a lot of experience. Honesty helps a lot to make meetings successful and enjoyable. You will find couples who are right for you if you let them know who you really are.

Here at Swingtagon International, we take our community very seriously. Therefore, if other members report a certain member for providing false information, we reserve the right to cancel that member’s membership permanently.

Face-time and Skype have allowed us to chat live. Perhaps this is the best way to make sure that the couple in the photos look the same in person. This also allows you to speak in “real-time” and avoid the problems that messaging can cause.

One of the other problems faced by those who rely on technology is having a total stranger. As many swingers will attest, they often ‘meet’ people online who either slow down the process of a face-to-face meeting or don’t show up at pre-arranged meetings. That leaves the couple wondering what went wrong. Many people only seem to come off from another couple’s correspondence. They pretend they are only interested in the excitement. It was never intended to meet. This is the main reason why here at Swingtagon International, we do not offer FREE memberships, and we only offer one-year subscriptions. Swingers who have no interest in meeting other people in real life will also not pay for a membership.

The time and energy they put into finding other swinger couples through Swingtagon International pays off for most people.

One of the best advice for couples struggling with flakes and not having shows is to insist on meeting early. Do not extend the process of getting to know someone through text messages or e-mails. Instead, after one or two e-mails or phone calls, set a day and time for a meeting. This prevents you from wasting time with people who have no real interest in actually meeting in person. If someone does not show up at the meeting, please report this to our management team.

When a person or swinger couple sets up a meeting, a coffee shop is the smartest place to meet. There is no time or money commitment here, and most people would agree that they know within the first five minutes if they are interested. Wasting an entire evening meeting someone for dinner can be a disaster if you don’t like them.

Don’t forget to use common sense. If something isn’t right or you get a bad feeling, back it up. Not everyone is honest or has good intentions. As with regular dating, pay attention to what your feelings are telling you.

Most importantly, have fun. Swinging should be fun. This is not a job, but a lifestyle!